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Simplified Rules of Islamic Divorce

(part 1 of 2) Description:  The types and procedures of divorce is a detailed subject among Muslim jurists, but this two-part lesson will aim to cover the basic rules of divorce in Islam with little technical language. Objectives ·         To understand the rationale of the Quran to allow divorce. ·         To understand that divorce is the last resort, not the first step to resolve marital conflict. ·         To understand the obligatory, recommended, permitted, disliked, and forbidden types of divorce. ·         To learn about ‘ iddah ’ or types of ‘waiting periods’. Arabic Terms ·         Iddah  - waiting period. ·         Sunnah  - The word  Sunnah  has several meanings depending on the area of study however the meaning is gener...

The Nuts and Bolts of an Islamic Marriage

Description:  The article discusses important details of an Islamic marriage that every new Muslim should be aware of before getting married. Objective: ·         To learn the goals of marriage. ·         To learn the meaning and role of a  walee. ·         To appreciate the criteria for selecting a spouse. ·         To learn the rules of meeting a prospect before marriage and the marriage proposal. ·         To understand the conditions of a valid Islamic marriage contract. ·         To learn about dowry and the wedding feast. Arabic Terms: ·         Imaan  - faith, belief or conviction. ·         Halal  - permissible. ·         ...

Rights & Responsibilities of Husbands and Wives

Description:  Rights of husbands and wives on each other will be discussed based on the Quran and the teachings of Prophet Muhammad. Objective: ·         To learn the rights of husbands. ·         To learn the rights of wives. ·         To learn the basics of sexual conduct between the husband and wife. Arabic Terms: ·         Mahr  -  dowry, bridal gift, given from a man to his wife. ·         Ramadan  - The ninth month of the Islamic lunar calendar.  It is the month in which the obligatory fasting has been prescribed. Islam clearly lays down rights and responsibilities of a husband over his wife and that of a wife over her husband.  The idea that spouses have rights over one another is quite unique to Islam.  What also makes it more amazing is how clearly they ...

Marriage Advise

(part 1 of 2) Description:  Simple and straightforward essential marriage advise for new Muslims. Objective: ·         To list some matters for a new Muslim to reflect upon before getting serious about marriage Arabic Terms: ·         Istikharah prayer  - the prayer for Guidance ·         InshaAllah  – God willing, if God wills it to be so.  It is a reminder and acknowledgment that nothing happens except by the will of Allah First Things to Know One of the most useful advice, in the opinion of this author, is that a new Muslim should take Islam one piece at a time.  It is a total way of life that needs time to adjust.  It can take years to leave many non-Islamic behaviors, but sticking to Islam brings happiness in this life and in the one to come.  Therefore, allow yourself time to grow as a Muslim and practice what you learn....